Love Systems Bewertungen 

Hey guys,

first when i heard about this book i wasn t realy sure if it works.
But just after a few tries this Information what you get here is awsome.

You stop to be afraid and you just do it, cause you know what to do :)

So if you have Problems with the "how" (shall i start or can i get this girl).
Here´s the answere.

Your
Chris

I went into Super Conference not knowing what to expect. I was blown away by the material, and passion from the instructors to help all of us achieve our true potential. This event is much more than improving your skills with women. It's about re-inventing yourself into the best version of you in all areas of your life.

It's inspiring to hear the instructors stories and see how far they've come in their lives after working through the strategies and material presented at Super Conference. You'll see me there again next year!

I've studied Love Systems method for nearly 10 years now, starting with their first excellent public product, the Magic Bullets eBook. In my opinion, the company offers easy-to-understand, very common sense, result-oriented, actionable instructions for modern day dating.

One thing I'd like to emphasize is that I see the special quality of this method in being equally respectful to men and women, which is the best approach to making a real, profound improvement to everyone's love life. It is indeed about love, and yes, these are indeed well-structured systems for a thinking man.

What I also find impressive is that the method, or rather, methods - because the system is very fluid and always evolving - work for someone like me, a man in mid-forties, not only for college students etc.

Bravo! A grateful student.

The forefront of what's being offered here is a training program in order to improve your dating life. But for me, this was a lesson in taking chances. I have a bit of social anxiety, and I'm certain many people who look into these things are also on the shy side. While this is a program designed to meet women, this is also a method to improve confidence overall through awareness. You learn a lot about yourself through your interactions with people. This will help you do that.

There's an unspoken promise that the instructors you'll meet are quite humble. The ones I've had the pleasure of meeting always gave off that calming gentleman's presence that puts you in the mindset of a sophisticated learning experience. They provide a range of social awareness that enables you to handle a variety situations. Now a bootcamp is just as the word implies, you'll be hit hard with a lot of information and pushed into meeting people that night. But the instructors know this and have a manner of easing you into the process that somehow doesn't feel rushed.

I took a bootcamp and an inner game seminar a ways back and am still using their structure as a daily guideline. It keeps you positive and socially active so that you continue to build upon meeting new friends and relationships. You'll learn more than just about dating, you'll learn how to enrich your life. That's attractive.

I had a great time using the system

Like a lot of people, I got interested in the
system after reading Neil Strauss's "The Game". It was a great read and it stayed on the best seller's list for weeks, deservedly so. After that I read the "Mystery Method" and after that "Rules of the Game".

I am not your typical user. I am 55 years old and happily married FOR A
LONG TIME! TO THE SAME WOMAN! I WANT TO KEEP IT THAT WAY TOO! I have the love of my life. We've been together 35 years and for the vast majority of that time it's been great! Let's be honest with ourselves - there is no way that the little vixen you married is going to show up night after night in your marriage bed for five, ten, twenty years. (Okay maybe five years). People change, women change (the jokes are legion) and men need to change too. Change is hard. You need a plan. Finding a plan is NOT hard! Remember the words of Texas billionaire oilman T. Boone Pickett's daddy – "an idiot with a plan beats a genius without a plan every time".

My son wanted to go on his class trip to Italy. He was in the seventh grade. My wife was a little buggy about it. I suggested we stay in Rome for the week, let the kid take the class trip and then a few days at Carnival up the coast. This allayed her fears and gave us a whole
week together – by ourselves. This is where the plan comes in.

BE A BETTER BOYFRIEND - straight out of the book. I asked about all the things she wanted to see and wanted to do. I used the leading and planning techniques with many trips to YELP. We did stuff she wanted to do, but I lined them up in areas where we had multiple good reviews for eateries. We saw a few sights had a nice lunch did a few more sights, had a nice dinner and ended up back in our room. I made sure it wasn't too late and we weren't too exhausted. It was some of the most romantic time I have spent with my wife. The techniques work, if you bother to use them.

I have chided Savoy that I was going to take the chapter from "The Dangerous Books for Boys" on how to deal w/ girls, the book "How to Talk to Girls" and the first three chapters of "The Mystery Method" and meld it into a book to sell to the fathers of teenage boys.

I got the books from the library, every one. They are out there on e-books and used from Amazon. There is no real reason why you can't get your hands on a copy. Use them! They work!

Thanks
Regular Guy (my board name)
I'd use my real name but my wife is embarrassed

The love system program is the step by step system to improve who you are as a person and get more attention from all around you including some attractive ladies. I improved my social circle, my networking skill help me accomplish many of my goals. A year after taking the course I was engaged and have been married for 4 and half years to a amazing woman who is very successful, we bought a house in New Orleans and are living a wonderful life. What the coaches teach you is one on one tools to make you better at all assets of your life. You will gain the confidence of you apply the tools and techniques. This isn't a magic pill you have to do the work. You accelerate 10 times faster from the years of experience the coaches provide. I am glad I invested in the products and programs at love systems. It will give you the results you are looking for and make you an all around better man that will naturally attract want you want in life.

My good friend Marie-Anne once told me: "Dave, you have everything a lady wants in a man, and yet, it looks like you're not even aware of it. It doesn't make any sense!"

I have always been oblivious about how to seduce a woman. And I have been craving for so much more all along. In the past, a lot of girls have show interest in me but I was rarely able to bring it up to the next level.

I decided to man up and ask for help from this friend of mine who was getting laid with 3 different women every week. His advice led me to Love Systems, and it turned my life around! I wish I had discovered this community 10 years ago!

With the help of all the material and coaching they provide, I have done incredible personal development. Love Systems is a goldmine of knowledge and wisdom on how to turn an average frustrated chump into a powerful seducer.

This is not about learning pickup lines. It's about acquiring the mindset and beliefs needed to approach women with confidence and conveying your value without coming off needy or fake. I apply the social skills I learned in Love Systems to my everyday life outside the context of courtship.

Reading Magic Bullets should be everyone's step 1. Taking a bootcamp should be the step 2. The instructor sets you on the right path to develop yourself and push yourself beyond your limits.

The instructors teach guys because they love it! And I could really feel that from Cajun during my workshop. These guys have dedicated their life to understanding what makes women tick. They have made all the mistakes and compiled their lessons learned into the material provided by Love Systems so that YOU don't have to go through all of that.

Don't get me wrong, it still requires a lot of personal work to develop confidence with women. The bootcamp will not turn you into a pickup artist, I see it more like a rite of passage into adulthood. It prepares your mind for things you would've never thought would be possible before. Worth every penny!

Anyone else find the fact that on every website where LoveSystems is reviewed --- including this one --- all of the reviews appear in a month-long span? Some of the reviewers down there said that they had taken a bootcamp 5 years ago, some said months ago, and some didn't mention when they took the program. I am not denying that these people might be legitimate customers, but LoveSystems definitely played some part in these reviews all showing up at once. Maybe those former students are now currently working for the company. Maybe LoveSystems reached out to them to make a review knowing that it would be a favorable one. In any event, this is a biased sample.

I actually also took the bootcamp. I was naive about the industry and pickup in general. A few months later I had taken a program with two other companies and purchased another companies one month online video membership for 37 dollars. In retrospect, after having taken all three programs, it was obvious that LoveSystems was the worst, and the worst value by far. one company's product was 300, the online membership was 37, and LoveSystems charged 3k. Pickup is about becoming a cool, socially well adjusted individual. This does not happen in a weekend....and I get it, the bootcamp is supposed to lay a framework for improvement...and in theory that makes sense. But in practice, one night of being pushed into sets will not do anything for you. Going out often along with maybe a little theory will help you get there. As far as actual theory: any and all of the information that I learned on LoveSystems's seminar portion could be found online for free. This company offered me absolutely no proprietary or unique information. The live in field coaching was simply watching instructors approach girls from afar. When you've been doing pickup for awhile you know how to approach, and you know that it is possible to get phone numbers, good reactions etc. by approaching. Therefore, watching people talk from afar is pretty useless. The Lovesystems staff doesn't really do sets with you. I found the in-field portion of the bootcamp to be about as useful and half as fun as going out to the bars with my own friends. The online video monthlong membership from another company gave you all the little intricacies of conversation and things to keep in mind when approaching that I found incredibly helpful. The video seminar provided by the other company gave you extremely in depth analysis on night game interaction.

The reason I am a bit bitter about LoveSystems is I feel like they are a little misrepresentative about what their products will be like. Also, they do things like they have done on this website...namely manipulating reviews. In fact, I had a friend who wrote a review on another medium of the bootcamp having legitimately taken it and having had a bad experience. The owner of LoveSystems came onto the forum and said that the review was a hoax. Even AFTER the student had reached out to the owner and provided him with proof, LoveSystems did not retract their statement. Whenever a review pops up that displays Lovesystems in a negative light, you will always see some comments on it trying to dispute it or poke holes in the review. In fact, this very review was flagged by Lovesystems staff and removed temporarily. They refuse to believe that any review that has anything negative to say about their product is a legitimate one. They always comment saying that they offer a 100% money back guarantee for their products so all a dissatisfied student would have to do is ask for it...but that is the industry standard. Every company in this industry provides a 100% money back guarantee, so wouldn't that mean that every company could use the same logic in their response? Wouldn't that mean that every company could claim every negative review was fake?

My advice to you would be to do a little bit more digging. Scour the internet for information. Hunt the forums for wings, and if you can't find any, just go out alone. Approach, approach, approach. You do not need Lovesystems. If you still feel you need/want coaching, look elsewhere.

Edit: Have you ever wondered why reviews on a bunch of different mediums for Lovesystems are unreasonably high? Well now I know. They actively find ways to get negative reviews removed. This review was once again removed from trust pilot. I then provided proof of purchase and it was restored. I honestly wouldn't be surprised if a lot of the positive reviews were posted by the business itself. I would appreciate it if TrustPilot looked into the positive reviews as well.

Edit #2: there were two other negative reviews posted by others on this page that Lovesystems has removed. Please take the high rating for this business on this page with a big grain of salt.

Edit #3: Yes, I am using an alias. Second, I personally know someone with this name that took class with the name that I am using so it's impossible that you couldn't find a person with my name in your system. I know you cannot DIRECTLY affect TrustPilot reviews, but you can contact TrustPilot to notify of compliance breaking rules and email them asking them to ask for proof for certain reviews. Unsurprisingly, the only two reviews that have been removed were the ones that portrayed LoveSystems in a negative light, none of the other positive reviews were removed even temporarily. I know for a fact that you do actively look for ways to get negative reviews removed. A friend of mine posted a review on Ripoff report about your bootcamp and your CEO came in and claimed that the review was a hoax. After my friend provided proof to the CEO that he was a member of the class, the CEO DID NOT REDACT HIS MESSAGE. Also, I have another acquaintance who experienced something similar on DSR. In my first post, I was not "advertising" for other companies. That implies that I am working for them, which I am not, I was simply providing alternatives that I believed in my mind to be far superior options. I have contacted you guys about my poor experience a couple times and you have done nothing to make amens for it so I am not interested in speaking to you or the company again.

Edit 4: I genuinely appreciate the honest response.

Look, the reason that I chose to take a Lovesystems bootcamp before the programs with your competitors was that the reviews for Lovesystems were considerably higher than that of your competitors. After having taken 3 different programs with three different companies I was shocked to see that the quality was the complete opposite of what the reviews suggested. I began to look more closely at reviews of all three companies over a years time and began to notice a trend. Negative reviews of Lovesystems were removed with a much higher frequency than any of your competitors. I do not buy the fact that you attempt to have reviews removed only if they are advertising a competitor or slanderous in language. The other negative review on this page was not slanderous in language, and did not mention any of your competitors. You wanted to have the review removed only because it was a low rating. You probably emailed TrustPilot and asked the student to provide proof. Some students may have deleted the email that contains the receipt and have no other way of providing proof. Other students may feel that it is not worth their time to go through the charade of having to provide proof, being that there is no benefit to themselves. On the other hand, if no positive reviews are being held to the same level of scrutiny, there will be a disproportionate number of high reviews on any given page. What’s more, is if a student needed to post a positive review, I am sure that they could easily contact Lovesystems and have a copy of the receipt remade. The point of my tenacity in replying to your comments and ensuring that my review is being made public is to give consumers my honest opinion of the situation and to give them perspective on a reason that Lovesystems could have such high ratings.

In terms of free content, I actually don’t see THAT much being provided. In every single one of your blog posts you end up trying to sell product. I actually notice that your competitors release a lot more free content and the free content that I was referring to was that of your competitors.

In terms of suggestions on what to make better: I’d say improve your money back guarantee policy. A lot of your students are taking a pickup bootcamp because they are not assertive. I, personally, wanted my money back after my experience. I found it very uncomfortable to ask the very people who were running the bootcamp for a refund and therefore wanted to go home and ask for it from staff through email. I found that the refund policy was that a student had to ask for it in person, along with several other stipluations. (One being that if a student is late to any portions of the bootcamp, the refund becomes null and void despite the fact that the instructors themselves were late to every single infield and in class session.) If you want to create a fair policy, allow students to contact the company via email if they are unsatisfied. If you really are that confident that your program works then this should not be an issue. Some students would take advantage of this, sure, but students could take advantage of the money back guarantee even with your current system.

Finally, in terms of making amends. I honestly am not interested in any of Lovesystems products at this point. Apart from getting my money back there is really nothing that I want from Lovesystems (Which I was told is impossible at this point). Offering me another product from Lovesystems at this point is akin to a restaurant that you get food poisoning from giving you a voucher for a free meal.

Have you hit rock bottom? I think there are multiple ways to define this. Did your fiancée cheat on you? Are you a virgin after years of trying? Are you simply not getting the women you want? I probably was in this latter category. Nothing disastrous had happened to me, but I felt extremely frustrated. College had finished, and the social circle bubble had popped. I was now in grad school and was getting close to no results. Even unattractive girls from online dating wouldn’t go out with me for a second date. This didn’t make any sense, because I was a success in every other aspect of life. I was smart, had a good job in the works, super nice, and while I didn’t have movie star looks, I certainly wasn’t ugly. Isn’t this what girls said they wanted in a guy?

My decision 5 years ago to take a Love Systems bootcamp was one of the major turning points in my life. Since then, I have done most major program formats the company has to offer: the standard bootcamp, a day game workshop, a one-on-one, Super Conference, and ultimately Project Rockstar. I cannot imagine what my life would have been like had I not taken this step. For this very first bootcamp, within 5 minutes of the seminar starting, I knew I would love what the program. Within the next few months, I broke through. I started having fun at the bars again, making out with girls, and getting some dates and lays.

3 years later, after some interruptions due to school, I took a day game workshop. I wanted to learn how to do this during the day time. It was a real eye opener. The instructor's techniques are the best in the industry. Day game is not something you can master quickly (few worthwhile things are in life), but with lots of practice, I finally got good results. The instructor's techniques are what set me apart from others I have seen, and I would never have gotten this good without his workshop.

The same instructor mentored me for the better part of the next year. A few months after his day game program, I did a one-on-one with him for night game. Within a few approaches, he knew exactly what I was doing wrong, and, just as important, what I was doing right. He dissected my game, and gave me a custom program to go forward with. I started to breakthrough even further, however a particular girl got in the way. I was conflicted about my passion for self-improvement, and stopping to smell the roses. This relationship lasted 6 months.

When it was over, I put together everything I had learned in the previous 3 years. It was everything all 3 instructors I had encountered so far had taught me, and over the next 6 months, I had more dates and lays that I ever could have imagined. I had reached a new height and personal satisfaction. That being said, there always was this drive to continue improving within me, so I went to Super Conference later that year.

Going to Super Conference was the next major turning point in my life. I was inspired by so many people here, but none more than Joe Intrigue. The way the guy transformed his life, that made me want to keep pushing. The other key guy I met at Super Conference was the head of Project Rockstar. I left Super Conference feeling sorry for everyone in the world who hadn’t pushed their lives as far as they could. I left a changed man and very inspired.

I pushed as hard as I could over the next few months and was elated to be chosen for Project Rockstar this past summer. I have a completely separate review on this on the attraction forums, so I won’t go into full details. In short, it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done in my life, yet perhaps the single most incredible experience I have ever had. Just when I thought my life was reaching a new height, Project Rockstar has elevated it into the stratosphere. I’m just now beginning to reap the benefits of it at home. It is the culmination of everything Love Systems has to offer. I do not see the world as I used to. My life is flush with women, but more than that, self-love, happiness, and fulfillment. Isn’t this what we all ultimately want?

I know the sky is the limit for everyone who has drive and determination. Those who don’t will have limits, but will still benefit from Love Systems. The company’s programs are expensive, but for me they have each paid themselves back many-fold. I barely drink anymore. I lost 50 pounds and am jacked. I am happy. I get all the sex I want. Isn’t this what you want? But I most definitely worked for it.

So when I keep giving the caveat that I worked for it, I must add that you can have different goals and ambition when you sign up for Love Systems. It isn’t for those who don’t want to put any work or effort. But if you apply yourself, your results are guaranteed. So what do you want out of it?

If you want a girlfriend, you will definitely get this. This is an easy goal to achieve with Love Systems. This is what I wanted initially, but once I had it, I set the bar higher. If you want a quality woman, you have to push harder. And if you want to have tonnes of choice with women, you will have to push even harder. But all of these are attainable with Love Systems. It’s funny, at first it’s all about getting the girls, but once you pass a certain point, it’s really about your personal development. You will see this if you keep following this path. In hindsight, had I checked out at any point, my life would already have been so much upgraded from before. But I just kept pushing. I don’t know what the future brings for me, but I’ve never been happier or more fulfilled. This is a line I repeated after each Love Systems program I did.

I am not one for writing long reviews. I just wanted to say that all the instructors are great. They also explain how all the different areas of your live are intertwined. They are great at spotting things like bad posture and explaining how it impacts how others see you. Since they have all gone through the program themselves they really know what they teach.

This review is a long time coming. I first heard of Love Systems after reading The Game, by Neil Strauss, a few years back. I thought, wouldn’t it be great to be able to do something like that? -- have the confidence to speak to any woman or group of women, keep them entertained and wanting more? I always had confidence in my professional life but not when it came to my personal life and meeting women. The last thing I could see myself doing was walking up to a woman I didn’t know, not to mention starting a conversation and keeping that conversation going without getting tongue-tied with moments of awkward silence.

After finishing the book, I did some research online and found Love Systems. There was a session not too far away in Washington DC and I signed up for it. I figured, what could it hurt? If it doesn’t help then I’m no worse off than I am now and at least I tried, right? It only needs to help a little bit to be better off than I was before. It seemed like a no-lose situation to me.

That first day we met in a hotel conference room. I don’t remember the exact number of students – probably in the 10-12 range – but they were from all walks of life. Some were older than me and some were younger. I was in my late 30’s at the time. We all had one thing in common though – we wanted to get over our social anxiety of talking to women.

The instructors were nice and could relate. They had all been in our shoes at one time or another. They talked to us the first afternoon, explaining the system and learning more about each of us so they could help us with our openers. Not openers, such as cheesy pick-up lines but conversation starters that we were comfortable with, that fit each of our personalities and style. They also gave us tips on how to keep the conversations going if there was a lull. They taught us to have fun with the women, be engaging and make them laugh. They taught us how to approach a woman, a group of women and even a table of mixed company. How to identify the alpha male of the group, if there was one, and how not to appear threatening to him. All of this information was an eye opener to me and the other students in the class.

The best part of all of this was when we went into the field to apply what we learned. Yes, it was a little intimidating, but the instructors were there with us every step of the way. And you know what? The stuff worked. It really did.

The next day we got together again and debriefed. We talked about what worked and what didn’t, learned more of what to do and what not to do and went out again for night two in the field to apply it and debriefed again on day 3 and gained more material to try on our own.

I left the bootcamp armed with enough information to continue practicing on my own but you’re not on your own once you leave. Love Systems is always there to help you if you need it.

I really can’t recommend Love Systems highly enough. Did it help me? Yes, it did. It gave me the self-confidence I needed to meet women socially. I am also happy to report that I just recently celebrated my 3rd wedding anniversary to a wonderful and beautiful woman. Without Love Systems, I would not have had a chance with her. I’m glad I took the chance with Love Systems when I did.

This is a long post, it’s not a field report, those are elsewhere, it’s a recommendation that you should grab your balls (and your wallet) and book yourself a bootcamp.

Game to me has always been more something I read about and knew about than actually took action on. Having lurked on the forums ever since I’d read ‘The Game’, reading field reports, articles from the instructors, and finally reviews from others who’d gone on bootcamps, I could see what was possible if I faced my fear and actually choose to approach women instead of waiting and hoping.

My three biggest fears going into the bootcamp were: 1. Would I be training with losers who’d never been with women? 2. Were the instructors going to be weirdos who’d teach me creepy routines to trick women into bed? And 3. What if I paid the money and didn’t approach? None of these came to pass, the students were normal guys who were looking to get better with women, the instructors were awesome guys who were also awesome with women and what they teach is how to show the real you to girls without hiding your intentions. Lastly, the three instructors made sure I did approach. Just to be clear to readers at this point, I’m not inexperienced with women, but for me, things only happened when the woman took charge. That works fine for a while, but every time a relationship ended, I was back at square 1, I’d never got good with women because I’d never had to. I took the bootcamp because I was sick of being chosen, I wanted to do the choosing!

If you’ve read all of Love Systems books, you might be thinking, what else is there to learn? Well, the seminars cover the standard Triad Model, but the instructors add detail and add extras that you will not get elsewhere. Out of respect to the instructors, I won’t reveal those details here, but they were revelatory to the group – and we saw for ourselves how well they worked during the in-field portion. The other advantage is you can directly question the instructors on aspects of game, giving you invaluable insight from expert PUAs. In-field you get to see the masters in action and you get the chance to practice what you’ve learnt – all under the watchful guidance of the instructors. Having them with you in the club means you can learn and adapt on the fly, not only will they watch your sets, but they’ll wing you in them and give you instant feedback when you eject or get blownout. Unless you’re already a master PUA (in which case, why are you here?) or have friends who are, that feedback can help you turn your futile sets successful (even on the same night).

Did I learn anything? Did I progress? The answer is unequivocally yes. Am I where I want to be? Of course not, but am I nearer to my goal, most certainly. I’ve now proved to myself, both by doing and by watching the instructors, that you can go further and faster with girls than I ever thought before – kisses within seconds of opening (with about 30 words between us), instant attraction and isolation from mixed sets, and even being able to steal a girl back from a guy who’s been desperately trying to get a number for 5 minutes!

If you’re looking to become a master PUA overnight, or fix your game in a weekend, I’m sorry, but this course isn’t for you. In fact, any course claiming to be that course is selling snake oil – learning game is like training in the gym, it takes time and effort. You cannot do one bootcamp and expect to be a master – you will develop, and you will develop faster than those who just read the books, or just go out a lot, but it is only the start of a journey. The bootcamp will give you the tools and insight into how to get good with women, but only your personal motivation and practice will make it work.

Three bits of advice, if you take a bootcamp, recognise that you have paid the instructors to push you out of your comfort zone – you must approach and you must apply what you have learnt. Watching demo sets and listening to their seminars can only take you so far, at some point it’s down to you. Accept the fear, embrace the rejection and keep approaching. Two, when approaching, do it in eyesight/earshot of the instructors if you can - get them to wing you of you can’t (they will also ask you whilst you are in set if you want a wing). If the instructors can’t see your sets, they can’t give you feedback to improve. Three, good wings are hard to come by, if you get on with your group and they live near you, take their numbers, not only will you be with people that have at least a basic understanding of game, but they can keep you accountable and make sure you don’t go backwards.

Take action, take a bootcamp, jump ahead on the journey to mastering game – you won’t regret it.

I attended the super conference of 2015. I invested on the silver package and if money wasn't a problem I would of invested in the all access package in a heart beat.

The instructors answered any question I had that had to do with dating and they did not just answer it, they made sure I understood and gave me examples to better understand.

They really want you to improve. They just want you to do your part so they can continue to help you grow.

If you can attend the super conference, do it. Even if it's just the silver package.

If you can easily afford higher packages, especially the all access package, DO IT!.

It really all comes down to how good you want to be with girls/women and what your able to afford.

Word's can't even begin to explain how this has changed my life! I first heard about 'Game' when I was in college and It was always a dream of mine to finally go see what they were all about. It was worth EVERY PENNY! and I personally felt it was undervalued!

The instructors were fabulous and super friendly and it was a ton of fun to go out for the super conference and gaming with them. They give you feedback in field and that to me was invaluable. The best part about it was, that it was not just about 'Game'. Love systems had a unique was of making this about developing yourself and seeing the value in yourself and owning who you are.

I am extremely grateful for this event, it has changed my life for the better. The skills I have learned, I have applied immediately and I am getting girls left and right.

Every man needs to check this program out once in their life. Nothing short of fabulous.

Thank you Love Systems!

I thought I was immune to "one-itis"; I've been good at putting women behind me -- until my most recent hookup. I remembered hearing about Future's "Kill Beatrice" post. I read it and it really hit the nail on the head. It resonated with me now in a way that it didn't before only because I wasn't in this place when I broke up with my ex (in fact, I was quite happy to get rid of her). With this most recent hookup, I was the one who got hurt and Future's post offers some great perspective.