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I'm in tears again dealing with the traumatic memories with my "relationship" I had when I was freshly 19 years old, I'm Gen Z, with someone who is a millennial. Who was 26 at the time. This was 2019.

I found and pursued her on Ferzu. I was so bold enough to find my soulmate instead of waiting.

She was so tragic and relatable, her stories victimizing herself.

We got to know each other, we got closer. One night was intimate, and ever since then we became closer and we got into a concerning age gap relationship that even she commented on.

Even on her profile back then she said she didn't want to date anyone who was six years younger than her because it made her "feel predatory" well, you are.

She was so sweet at first. This was my first only real relationship. I told her back in 2019 I wouldn't date again if she left. I haven't still. I still believe her lies despite knowing better, that she's my soulmate. I'm just left here waiting.

She love bombed me and I thought it was so genuine and sweet back then not knowing love bombing is a manipulation tactic before they start eroding at your sense of self and bullying you. On top of the other red flag is that she said literally all of her exes were "evil" as a "joke" reference to Scott Pilgrim.

She told me so many... disgustingly explicit things, that kept destroying me in the relationship ever since. It made me nauseous and made me have panic attacks, even to this day despite the relationship being over.

It destroyed me, I kept trying to talk to her about her "body count" when I wasn't comfortable with that and me feeling like one of her "numbers".

Long story short, as time went on, when I kept trying to talk to her about it, the more she pushed back and started berating me. Which led me to shut down and go nonverbal to prevent her blowing up at me, but that didn't work either. She'd threaten suicide with kitchen knives for months until I got to the point I did something similar, once, in order to get her to stop threatening me with her life.

She used that to smear campaign me on Twitter in 2021 and lied about a quote she herself said, not me. Including smear campaigning me shutting down to prevent her from yelling at me further.

I loved her, so much. I still do now despite me full well knowing she never loved me and just typing that is making me cry again and making me thinking of calling the hotline.

I blew up at her for months after once I discovered she did the very same thing I kept trying to tell her about I was afraid of her doing. Because the last months in 2020 I wasn't on Ferzu because of how horribly triggering her posts were, she took advantage of that and started talking to someone behind my back on there. For months.

Despite herself saying numerous times how she didn't consider it a dating site because of all the "groomers" and "pedos" I wonder which category you fall into, Alice

She told me that she "wholeheartedly believed I'm your soulmate" while cheating on me, and orchestrating the affair.

Her eradicating my character, and me believing her to the point in late 2020, when I was unaware of her cheating, I ended up self harming and I have so many more scars on my arms.

After I discovered the affair and after she blamed me and abandoned me, I vomited in early 2021 and wasn't able to eat properly for a good portion of the early year.

She constantly talked about the "literal blood sweat and tears" she shed for "Claudia", only for her to not get her in the end. Only for her to be "left for dead", she always went on about her abandonment issues.

Yet, she did that to me. I have all these physical and extra mental scars, for what? To be left abandoned, with all these conflicting and nauseating memories. All for her, but I'm left here now trying to pick up the pieces for years. I have an extra hideous scar from 2022 with a razor blade from the memories with her and so many others being unrepressed in 2021.

For years and currently, have been trying to learn about pressing charges. Because this is so unfair. That you get to be happy with the person you gaslit and cheated on me with, while I'm here with the long lasting trauma. I had a five day breakdown this week, July 2026 because my heart started pounding even seeing her name on this nice calming website I like posting to. Had a public breakdown trying to hide my tears.

I think she's cheating on her too now. Since she always bragged about getting explicit images from so many women and being a womanizer. I tried to warn her in 2021 too. Hopefully she heeds it by now.

She never came out publicly about dating me after I came out to her as trans male. Yet she still dated me, despite self proclaiming to be a lesbian.

Yet, Ferzu allows people like this to stay. No consequence

You deserve every once of suffering, like I suffered for you and still believing you'd come back.

You don't deserve to know peace, Allie. Sincerely, Sunshine.

Absolute Fail that community, only Toxic people and admins Harassing for no Reason.
I left again No reason to stay on a sinking ship

Horrible experiance. Long standing furry since tennagehood 2009. I joined uploaded my pfp which is a high detail sketch of my fursona head only from years back I added my name electrictronically since that's thier policy and credited to me.

Almost instantly got dogged by corner trolls claiming it was Ai and becagan bullying me calling me names saying I should go back into my father's scrotum because that's the only place I'm wanted.

I appealed the picture and I ran it through Ai detection where it passed as 98% human but the Admin still ruled against me twice.

I reported the other longstanding accounts and the Admin ruled against me again even though I was being bullied.

I ten made a post saying how horrible my experience is and that I will be telling every single fur to avoid that site like the plague and logged out.

I tried to log in today to fully delete my account and the Admin banned my IP address. Halirious.

The site owner is a egotistical self absorbed mainstream uninteresting bully themself. Site should be shutdown by the fbi probably a bunch of suicide rates attached to this site's behaviors.

Yeah, don't bother with this site. It is constantly riddled with people that think high school bully behavior is normal

Any troll that lands on the site get cheered on and encouraged

If you don't believe in what the group does, they will harass you, belittle you, and try to drive you away

If you want then to treat you unwanted, treated less than human, harass you, look at people that want to abandon you, take a opinion they don't like

Or just say you hate politic, that is all it takes

Some of the rules are so stupid. Need to credit my profile picture and immediately toxic behavior when I said I don't know the maker of that artwork, I literally randomly found it on internet few months ago. It's a goddamn PROFILE PICTURE why does your pfp even become a post anyway. Not a single platform has a dumb rule like that

They ban my twice and I been a user of ferzu for almost three years first time was about my age even tho my bio says I'm 20 this was before I turned 21 I had to fight tooth and nail to get unban the first time .

Second time they ban me with out gaving me a reason not even a email I try to appealing it but I got nothing the ban ends at may 20th that is outrageous so the admin doesn't care about the people who use there platform.

How can you ban someone then not tell them why they are ban not only but not help appealing if anyone wants to use the app don't cause they well just ban you for no reason.

I had some positive interactions with a few folks there but ultimately got bullied by people who harassed me because I had posted AI art and called it "ugly," despite it clearly not being. I contacted admins but they ruled against me, and the last time I went back they were all bashing AI art, so I'm never going back. Another major negative experience I've had in the furry fandom.

Removing art I had posted years ago on the basis I didn't credit myself for it removing pictures of myself and events I went to just stay away this site is a dumpster fire filled with hateful people that just want to cause drama and the admins don't give a shit about you

Admin is a pretentious if they think it's cute to limit people's posts by one post per hour. The guy tries to box you in to make you feel like you've got to subscribe to their shitty subscription instead of just giving you good solid reasons to subscribe naturally.

Most of the people there are okay, but some do some stupid trends like once in a while, people will post "ok" and it'll just bury everything people have said for no reason. No idea why this is a thing but it's dumb and doesn't offer engagement.

Nevertheless, people will trauma-dump, get unnecessarily political, uncomfortably explicit with their fetishes, e-begging for dates and friendship and ERPs but not have an ounce of social confidence to get either.

I'm amazed Ferzu is still somehow standing after all this time. It seems to have somewhat mellowed out on how it once used to have been a place where there used to be people who openly antagonize and practice witch hunts on people they just simply disagree with. And it used to have been a nightmare trying to interact with the place when it was policed by a clique of people who'd ruin someone else's fun by applying their prissy standards.

I mean, that isn't saying much still if the problems I mentioned earlier are still prominent. I would rather go elsewhere than try to find anything decent on this platform.

Shit sight, Corrupt admin, brake there Owen rules and try and enforce ruse that don’t exists. Also other horny guys or people with no filter go on it makes it weird.

A site filled with alot of horny men and hateful ones that seem to get away with attacking people.

Not to mention apparently you can't report any thing that happens on their site unless you've been on their website for more than 30 days.

I'm leaving this app for good because it gave me one of the most horrible impressions of the furry community I have ever received. 90% of the posts on this site are horny dudes asking for sexual favors. The site has poor moderation, and, I kid you not, literally has a limit of users that you are allowed to block. This site is not safe for women at all, and therefore most of the users are men. I would not recommend any furries especially those who are new to the community to sign up for this site. Oh, and it's not safe for Jewish people either. The site has no moderation against anti-semitic posts, as well as zero moderation against sexist posts, I've seen one anti-semitic post on there and several sexist posts. The only thing good about this site is the 10% of good people that I did meet on here who I ended up just adding on discord instead. Overall, not worth it, especially since I could have met those good folks naturally on discord without this app.

My friend got bullied off of this platform for having a simple opinion. He was called an incel, a bigot and so many other rude things.

This site seems like pure poison with all that judgement going around on it.