Bluesmatch Bewertungen 

My daughter met and married a coercive liar via Bluesmatch. He lied about his age, employment and intentions. He said he was here "to start a new life". In fact, when they married he took her back to Australia to live in a shared house. He wanted her to find a job so that he could give up his teaching post and "write". He exercised control and gaslighting over her. They are still "married" although he is back here on "Bluesmatch" again. He has left his teaching post saying he is suffering from stress and other issues yet, it seems, he is able to look for another victim via your site.

Lame website that feels like it has been designed by a spotty Oxon MPhill lurking in his bedroom. Photos are grainy, navigating the site is frustrating, and the algorithm is so off the mark it’s laughable.

One week into trialling this service - and most of the people and profiles seem genuine. It's a very small pool - but dramatically higher quality. Also, the service provider isn't trying to squeeze you for $$$ at every turn. We'll see where it leads, but for now happy to give 5* in a field that's crowded with exploiters, scammers and vultures!

The trouble with Blues Match, as indeed with all dating sites, is that the women ignore the men.

Women pay dating sites so that they can ignore men.

A second problem is that the women will say that they are looking for "friends", if they want friends, they can go on Facebook and not come on a dating site.

There are not enough American women on there to justify any American man joining. You will get "matches" but what's the point if they're on a different continent from you?

Many of the so-called "members" actually have expired subscriptions.

The website is basic and simple.

It is run as a part-time hobby by its owners, who have other jobs, so it is very much an afterthought.

An honest dating site would purge all old and out of date profiles.

Draw your own conclusions about Blues Match from the fact that it doesn't.

This is a dating site for members of Oxbridge and the Ivy League ie. Oxford, Cambridge and 8 well-known universities in the Northeastern United States including Harvard, Princeton and Yale.

A questionnaire has to be completed - in common with most other dating sites - detailing your eligibility and once this has been confirmed, you receive confirmation of membership.

However, whilst initially there are two days to send ( but not receive ) messages free of charge, thereafter, you have to become a subscriber to be able to send and receive unlimited messages. The cost is as follows:

12 months (£11.99 / month)
6 months (£14.99 / month)
3 months (£19.99 / month)
1 month (£29.99 / month)

Membership is claimed to be over 5000 currently, although this is world-wide. I would estimate that at least 20% of members have chosen not to display a picture, and there are quite a few who have not accessed the site for a while. In fact of 2 ladies selected as matches for me today, one last logged on last September, and the other last October! Just updated this as I checked on numbers of members lacking a picture, and out of 129 members matching my specifications 36 had no picture, so that is 28% . Which is very high for a site where credentials are likely to have been checked before granting membership.

It would appear that Blues Match Limited operates the site, and this is a Wimbledon based private limited company incorporated in February 2007 and having 2 employees. It has a net deficit of £50729 which is principally a loan to an associated company SKRL Limited.

The turnover is probably quite modest for a niche business, and in view of the restricted, though undoubtedly appealing, nature of the client base is likely to remain so.

I was reluctant to pay any money at all as I have my doubts about the level of response that might be forthcoming, and sadly have come to the conclusion that the site is little different from all the others, initially luring people in with a Join Free slogan.

Maybe I am too cynical but my initial excitement soon faded , so I hope there are not too many other people who may have been similarly disappointed.