Steve Jabba Bewertungen 

I had an irrational fear of approaching and it was getting too much to tolerate. As a way to combat this, I started doing cold approaching during the day sporadically and was able to get into brief conversations but I felt a bit 'fake' as I would just approach whatever looked remotely attractive. On meeting Steve, I gradually came to realise the importance of accessing the part that compells you to approach a woman you're physically attracted to and behaving in alignment with that throughout the interaction. This was a major turning point and I now feel more confident in my ability to express myself freely without fear of judgement. I would recommend Steve to anyone who wants to stop running 'game' and start being themselves.


Hughie

I had a 1 to 1 session with Steve Jabba from authenticpua.com on Saturday night and thought I´d write a review. I booked the session a few weeks ago so I paid 50 pounds an hour but I think Steve´s prices might have changed since then.

The coaching was for club game and we met in Tiger Tiger in Leicester Square. I´m fairly inexperienced in clubs which is why I wanted the coaching as I haven´t been able to go to clubs regularly until very recently due to my personal circumstances. However I´ve been going out every week for over a month now. The issue I´m having at the moment is inconsistency, Steve´s focus seems to be inner game and I think he´s helped me identify what is at the root of the inconsistancy.

Something that´s happened to me recently is that I started weight training which has resulted in me loosing weight and getting a better stature. The result of this is that I get a lot more attention from women in clubs than I used to. At the start of the night in Tiger Tiger a women came up to me when me and Steve were standing at the bar and said "I just had to tell you that you´re really gorgeous". This is nice when it happens but relying on things like this can be a problem and is why I have some really good nights and some really shit nights. Steve explained he had a similar experience when he first started weight training and he said the danger of it is that you can get trapped in a validation loop. You can end up seeking these validating responses from women and when they come you feel really good but when they dont come or you get bad responses and rejections it knocks your state all the way down.

I had a bit of a mixed night in the end, It stated positively went down hill (due to my mood) and then ended positively. Steve gave me a few "outer game" tips that were useful. Previously when a girl I liked gave me clear IOI´s on the dance floor I´d go up to her and start dancing with her, Steve recommended instead touching her on the arm and using an observational opener which worked better. I noticed a young blond girl smile and looking at me on the dance floor, Steve noticed it too and told me to go up to her and say something. I cant remember what I opened with but it went down well, she turned out to be a German Au-pair and was responding very positively when I was talking to her and touching her I tried to dance with her after a bit and things fizzled out. Steve pointed out that I should have lead her away from the dance floor at this point which is something I know myself but forget to do at times due to experience. He also pointed out that there is no need escalate physically as quickly as I was and that its ok to take your time. After this I had a very mixed bag of approaches and responses which resulted in my mood going down hill and me either not feeling like approaching or when I did approach getting a bad reaction. At the end of the evening I had a chat with steve about this and he spoke to me about seeking validation and about how I was letting bad responses from women affect my state which then affects how women respond to being approached, he also spoke about being less hesitant when I´m approaching. I think this is the most useful thing I´ve taken away, how my state is actually the most important aspect about how a girl responds to being approached.

After Steve left I hung around in Tiger Tiger for a bit, I tried to relax and get my self in a better mood then had another attempt. I noticed a young blond girl on the dance floor looking at me so I touched her arm as Steve suggested and made an observational comment (cant remember what I said). We chatted for a bit and I lead her away from the dance floor as Steve pointed out I should have done with the German girl. We chatted for a bit, turns out she´s 20 and from Hungary, she asked my age I was honest with her and said 37, she was visibly shocked but ultimately didnt seem to mind. We ended up kissing for a bit and exchanging numbers. We were texting on the night bus home and she´s very keen to see me again so the night ended on a high.

In all it was a really useful night, I´m still getting my head around the dynamics in a club and the little bits of outer game advice Steve gave me along with the more in depth stuff about inner game and mindset and how this affects how girls respond to you was really helpful.

I did a bootcamp with another PUA company before and felt that although I was given a lot of information and learned some good 'techniques', it never felt like it was me, it was more like an act.

But Steve will teach you what really attracts a woman, without the need for any tricks and routines. He's all about using a man's natural sexual instincts, and being honest and upfront about your intentions right from the beginning. When I approached girls in this way, feeling completely congruent with my words and behaviour it was almost effortless... no akwardness, no trying to remember lines... and I was getting phone numbers within 2 minutes of meeting a girl.

Highly recommended.

You've probably heard Richard La Ruina talk about a mysterious 'Steve' on most of his videos. Well this is Steve, authenticpua.com. My wings were talking about Steve too, we found his site and I did one on one. If youre fed up with all the PUA crap and lying to girls and using fake canned routines then meeting Steve will be refreshing. He hates being fake and full of crap, and is honest, direct and fun in his approach. Apparently most of the good bits you learn at Gamblers PUA training bootcamps came form Steve originally. Check him out, seriously worth the money, considering he is less than a PUA bootcamp that has 15 other guys in it. For one on one training! Nice.